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I must admit I'm surprised. I came across some #statistics outlining there are more gay #men than #women in the #UK.

Almost twice as many in fact, and even adding in #bisexuality it still tilts that way.

Why am I surprised? Well it's simply because it doesn't match my experience.

Over my six decades, I've met dozens of women who were in same-sex #relationships but only four or five men.

I can think of many possible reasons for the discrepancy, but it still feels wrong.

It's very hard to discount your own #experience as atypical. We're hardwired to think we're a representative sample :ollie_smile:

Heya #fediverse! I have a friend, #erotic #novelist TammyJo Eckhart, who actually approached - me to ask if I had a suggestion for what instance she should join, so I thought I'd ask the community for the perfect one!

She's looking for one that:

Welcomes #book #Author s and #Reader s

Welcomes #feminism and #queer / #lgbt discussions

Welcomes #AdultContent (discussion of #sexuality , some explicit materials, #kink, and #polyamory )

Welcomes social commentary (I think she means #leftist #politics )

She's never used Mastodon before, and is not particularly tech savvy (so no infosec-opensource-foss-whatever focused servers, please), but like most of us who ended up here, she's tired of the fascist censorship and coddling of mainstream social media platforms, and wants to find a place she can connect with others without having to constantly look over her shoulder for nazis and/or algorithmic censorship.

She also didn't mention character count, but as a writer (and person who enjoys engaging in nuanced conversation instead of screaming click bait headlines), something more than the default 500 characters would be nice as well. 😊

Any servers she should check out? And potential follows she might be interested in connecting with?

If you'd like to get to know TammyJo a little more, here's an interview I recorded with her for my feminist topless equality video series Topless Topics: toplesstopics.org/tammyjo/

Boosts appreciated so I can find her the perfect fit!

www.toplesstopics.orgTopless Topics Interviews TammyJo Eckhart: Ancient Historian, Award-Winning Kink Educator, and Multi-Genre Fiction Author – Topless Topics

"While there haven’t yet been the big fireworks of last session, lawmakers are quietly pushing proposals to further restrict the lives of trans people — what bathrooms they can use, what government documents they can obtain and what services public schools and mental health providers can offer to young people."

texastribune.org/2025/04/14/te

Attendees wave a trans flag while marching with over 300 activists and supporters from the Bexar County Courthouse to Crockett Park in “March for Us,” San Antonio's third annual celebration of Transgender Day of Visibility, on Saturday, March 29, 2025 in San Antonio, Texas.
The Texas Tribune · The Texas Legislature is having big battles over gender and sexuality. Track them here.Lawmakers are quietly pushing bills that would limit access to bathrooms and measures preventing trans people from changing government documents.

'My voice has been my living': Soprano's sacrifice for gender transition
By Penny McLeod

Hobart-based performer Quin Thomson embarks on medical transition amid service shortages, as Tasmanian GPs working with trans and gender-diverse patients close their books.

abc.net.au/news/2025-04-15/sop

ABC News · Soprano Quin Thomson gives up voice, faces unknown future in gender transitionBy Penny McLeod