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Two kink related events with similar dimensions (200-300 people) happen during Easter in Berlin. One, flinta only, tries to be inclusive including long and sometimes fracturing political discussions, the other, all genders welcome, not. The not specially inclusive event has a bigger percentage (or at all) wheel chair users, visibly disabled, older and younger people, trans including trans women, and evtg else I probably did not notice, also dedicated neurodivergent meetings. The amount of poc folks seem comparable in both events, both very white.

Just putting it here without explaining or interpreting, might do it in the comments.

I just want to highlight that inclusion takes more than wanting it and writing about it: the mechanics of exclusion are subtle and persistent.

"Who is not here and why". More than "who do we want to include"

I am putting this here as an invitation to reflect and not as throwing shit at people's work.

Obligatory self-promotion for my latest book, “Good Dawg.”

It took too long for Kevin to figure out he needed to be with a man who knew how to take control. He's not the young twink he sees submissives depicted as in the kinky stories he reads. Even if they were mostly fantasy, those books gave him a glimpse of what life could be like with the right dominant but also seemed to put it further out of reach.

Being a clinical psychologist in a big hospital keeps Theo busy. He's definitely drawn to men who are able to submit and give him complete control over their pleasure. Theo loves exploring the world of dominance and submission, but he doesn't see a full-time submissive in his future. He doesn't have the time to look after someone who needs that much attention.

When Theo's dog uses her wiles to introduce Kevin and Theo, the sparks certainly fly. Can two men who feel they're better off single really build a life together? #BDSM #MMRomance

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Michael Joseph · Good Dawg